Just a lil vent

I'm expecting a baby girl in March 2011. I have lost two because of miscarriage. Am I a little excited to be pregnant.... just a little. I wish people would be more sensitive about what they say or post regarding pregnancy, becoming a parent, etc. I know what it's like to want something so bad and have the slightest grasp on it, only for it to be taken away so quickly like it never happened. I understand that everyone has their journey and I'm not trying to have a pity party here. I feel so blessed to be carrying this baby and I know there are so many couples out there that will never have the chance that I have. I feel very lucky and blessed and don't take any pain, kick, or test for granted. That all being said, I'm really tired of some complaining that has been going on because this said person is pregnant and not even past her due date. I understand that at some point nothing fits, limbs are swollen, you feel like a moose, and you just want to hold that baby in your arms. But please understand that there are so many women that would take your place in a heartbeat to feel those pains, and have those swollen feet because they know that in the end, after 9 months (or so ) you have this miracle in your arms that looks at you like no one ever has. It's a gift, a blessing and all those pains and sleepless nights are worth it. So stop your moaning about being pregnant. Thank you. That's all for now!